Argumentum ad iram (also known as appeal to hatred, loathing, appeal to outrage, etc.)
Description
The Appeal to Anger fallacy occurs when emotions of anger, hatred, or rage are substituted for evidence in an argument. This includes resorting to shouting, raising one's voice, and screaming during a debate or discussion. The fallacy is committed when a person claims that anger serves as evidence for the validity of a claim.
Appeal to Anger signifies intellectual arrogance, indicating partiality, bias, and prejudice about one's stance on a topic. When someone resorts to anger, shouting, and personal attacks (ad hominem fallacy), it shows a lack of reasoning and evidence. Truth does not need emotions to convey itself; lies and misinformation often rely on emotions, specifically anger. Anger is used to intimidate, bully, and force others into accepting one's position.
Logical Forms
- Person 1 claims that X is true. Person 1 is outraged. Therefore, X is true.
- Claim A is made. You are outraged by claim A. Therefore, claim A is true/false.
Examples
- Jack says, "The government should spend more on education." In response, John gets angry and starts to shout. Jack is intimidated and avoids discussions with John.
- Zara says, "Women should be given their rights." Luke gets angry and begins raising his voice and shouting at her, intimidating and harassing her into silence.
Using anger or outrage to support a claim is an appeal to anger.
Anger Management During Discussion
Nature of Anger
Anger is a natural feeling. There's nothing wrong with feeling angry, but displaying it and directing it at someone is wrong and damaging to both parties. Instead of reacting with anger, it's better to swallow it, stay silent, move away from the place, or change location. When one's anger has calmed down, discussing the issue rationally with others—friends or life partners—is essential for any healthy relationship.
Anger is often hypocritical by nature. People easily get angry at those they consider lower in a hierarchical relationship, such as a waiter, child, or spouse, but when a powerful person or system exploits them, their anger vanishes. Anger is produced by hierarchy, where the privileged get angry at the less privileged. It's easier to get angry at those less powerful because retaliation is less expected.
The Inner Voice of Evil
Anger. It's a primal emotion, a surge of hot energy coursing through our veins, often triggered by a perceived threat or injustice. While anger itself isn't inherently bad, it's how we handle it that truly defines us. In the aftermath of an angry outburst, a voice often slithers into our consciousness, a voice that seeks to soothe the sting of our actions: the inner voice of justification.This voice is a master manipulator. It whispers insidious arguments, painting a picture where we are the wronged party, the victim. "The waiter deserved your harsh words," it coos, "Look at the mess he made of your new shoes!" "Your wife shouldn't have been so argumentative," it hisses, "She provoked you!" These justifications are a dangerous trap. They normalize anger, turning it from a potent emotion into a weapon that can inflict lasting damage.
Domestic violence, a chilling consequence of unchecked anger, often finds its roots in this voice of justification. It tells the abuser that their actions are somehow deserved, a twisted form of punishment for the perceived slights of their partner. The cycle continues - anger, justification, violence - eroding trust and creating a toxic environment.
So, how do we break free from this internal tyrant? The answer lies in a seemingly simple act: silencing the voice of justification. It's not about ignoring anger; it's about acknowledging it, understanding its source, and then choosing a more constructive response.
The Art of the Apology
This journey towards anger management begins with a word often deemed a weakness – sorry. Saying sorry doesn't diminish us; it elevates us. It's a powerful act of self-awareness that acknowledges our role in the situation.An apology, however, is more than just a fleeting utterance. It's a sincere expression of regret, a recognition of the hurt we've caused. It necessitates taking responsibility for our actions, moving beyond the justifications our inner voice whispers.
The act of apologizing, while challenging to our ego, has a profound psychological impact. When we say sorry, we force ourselves to confront the consequences of our anger. It forces us to see the situation from another's perspective, fostering empathy and understanding.
This introspection isn't just about soothing the ruffled feathers of the wronged party, although that's certainly a positive outcome. The true power of apology lies in its impact on ourselves. Saying sorry strengthens our emotional intelligence. It allows us to learn from our mistakes and build resilience against future anger outbursts.
Here's the beauty of this process – the more we embrace apologies, the less our inner voice of justification needs to speak. As we take ownership of our anger, the urge to rationalize it diminishes. With every sincere apology, we chip away at the power this voice holds over us.
Democratic Right to Opinion
It's essential to agree to disagree. People can have diverse opinions, and everyone has the democratic right to express their views with evidence and logical reasoning. One may differ in opinions, and it's crucial to express the logical basis for one's views while allowing the other person the right to agree or disagree.
“I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.”
- Voltaire
Forcing people to accept one's opinions is a fascist attitude. All one can do is express one's opinion and understanding with evidence and reasoning. The rest depends on whether the audience accepts it.
Never Make it About Winning and Losing
Arguments should not be about winning or losing but about seeking to know more and acknowledging if one is wrong. Developing this attitude will eradicate any element of anger one might possess.
Intellectual Humility through Skepticism
To combat anger, one must develop intellectual humility. This can be achieved by understanding three basic facts:
- We interpret new ideas through the knowledge we already possess (schema), which is influenced by our culture, socioeconomic conditions, teachers, parents, and books. This diversity in sources leads to diverse perceptions.
- We receive raw data through our five senses, which have their own physical limitations.
- The human faculty of reasoning is not perfect; it suffers from cognitive biases and thinking errors.
Due to these facts, no one can be the final authority on truth. Skepticism about one's own ideas, opinions, and stances fosters intellectual humility. Recognizing that one's knowledge is personal and fallible, and that others may have better understanding, is crucial.
Expressing opinions with disclaimers like "To the best of my understanding," "To the best of my reasoning capability," and "As I have understood it," indicates intellectual humility. Accepting the limitations of our reasoning faculty and senses, and acknowledging the influence of socioeconomic factors, can help eliminate partiality, prejudice, and bias. Anger signifies intellectual arrogance, implying that we see ourselves as the sole bearers of truth.
Tips to Overcome Anger
- Practice Deep Breathing: Deep breathing helps to calm the mind and reduce stress. Try taking slow, deep breaths to help control your anger.
- Take a Timeout: Step away from the situation that's causing anger. A short break can give you time to cool down and gain perspective.
- Exercise Regularly: Physical activity can help reduce stress and anger. Regular exercise releases endorphins, which improve your mood.
- Practice Mindfulness: Mindfulness techniques, such as meditation and yoga, can help you stay calm and focused, reducing the likelihood of anger.
- Identify Triggers: Recognize what triggers your anger and try to avoid those situations or prepare yourself to handle them better.
- Use "I" Statements: Communicate your feelings using "I" statements, such as "I feel upset when..." This helps to express your emotions without blaming others.
- Seek Professional Help: If anger is affecting your life significantly, consider seeking help from a therapist or counselor who can provide strategies and support.
Recognizing Your Triggers
Understanding and identifying the situations that trigger your anger can help you manage and control it better. Common triggers include feeling disrespected, being misunderstood, facing unfair treatment, or experiencing stress and frustration. Keeping a journal to track when and why you get angry can help you identify patterns and develop strategies to address these triggers effectively.
Understanding Cognitive Biases
Cognitive biases are systematic patterns of deviation from norm or rationality in judgment. These biases can influence our arguments and the way we perceive and respond to information. Some common cognitive biases include:
- Confirmation Bias: The tendency to search for, interpret, and remember information in a way that confirms one's preconceptions.
- Anchoring Bias: The tendency to rely too heavily on the first piece of information encountered (the "anchor") when making decisions.
- Overconfidence Bias: The tendency to be more confident in one's abilities and judgments than is objectively warranted.
- Availability Heuristic: The tendency to overestimate the likelihood of events based on their availability in memory, often because they are recent or dramatic.
By recognizing these biases, you can better understand how they affect your reasoning and arguments. This awareness can help you approach discussions more objectively and reduce the likelihood of anger and frustration.
Quotes on Intellectual Humility and Open-Mindedness
“We need to enter the conversation willing to be wrong, willing to admit the limits of our own knowledge, willing to reconsider our evidence, sources, and premises. That is self-skepticism.” ― Patricia Roberts-Miller, Demagoguery and Democracy
“It is a necessary condition of rationality that a man shall formulate his beliefs in such a way that it is clear what evidence would be evidence against them and that he shall lay himself open to criticism and refutation ... But to foreclose on tolerance is precisely to cut oneself off from such criticism and refutation. It is gravely to endanger one's own rationality by not admitting one's own fallibility.” ― Alasdair MacIntyre
“The most difficult subjects can be explained to the most slow-witted man if he has not formed any idea of them already; but the simplest thing cannot be made clear to the most intelligent man if he is firmly persuaded that he knows already, without a shadow of a doubt, what is laid before him.” ― Leo Tolstoy
“Let me never fall into the vulgar mistake of dreaming that I am persecuted whenever I am contradicted.” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson
“Your assumptions are your windows on the world. Scrub them off every once in a while, or the light won’t come in.” ― Isaac Asimov
“The man who never alters his opinion is like standing water and breeds reptiles of the mind.” ― William Blake
“It’s a universal law– intolerance is the first sign of an inadequate education. An ill